Taking effective action on YOUR priorities won’t happen by accident. In fact, without a bit of planning, and some focused effort, it won’t happen at all. I use three anchor activities in my week – the Workday Startup, the Workday Shutdown, and the Weekly Review – to keep me oriented in the right direction. This is part 3 of a 3-week … Read More
This is the workday shutdown
Taking effective action on YOUR priorities won’t happen by accident. In fact, without a bit of planning, and some focused effort, it won’t happen at all. I use three anchor activities in my week – the Workday Startup, the Workday Shutdown, and the Weekly Review – to keep me oriented in the right direction. This is part 2 of a 3-week … Read More
This is the workday startup
Taking effective action on YOUR priorities won’t happen by accident. In fact, without a bit of planning, and some focused effort, it won’t happen at all. I use three anchor activities in my week – the Workday Startup, the Workday Shutdown, and the Weekly Review – to keep me oriented in the right direction. Today starts a 3-week series that will … Read More
5 steps to make 2025 the best year yet
Hoping your business will become what you want it to be is not going to cut it. To make 2025 the best year yet, you are going to have to get specific about what you want and start employing behaviors that make it possible. Here are five steps that will help you get there. Figure out what you want more … Read More
This was an uncomfortable conversation…
I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. Nicole and I were on a weekend getaway at a Nordic Spa, enjoying a relaxing moment in one of the warming pools with a handful of other guests who were conversing in disparate groups. A new couple entered the pool, found a place to sit near us, and began their own conversation that … Read More
Do this before you set goals
Before you start setting goals for next year, do these 3 things: Setting new goals is much more effective when you account for the things that helped you succeed, the obstacles that slowed you down, and celebrate as many victories as you can conjure, because doing so helps you apply what you’ve learned in the past 12 months to the … Read More
What if it had to be done today?
I recently heard someone offer an exercise to small business owners: Take your core product offering and develop a version that costs 1/10th the current price, and another that costs 10x the current price. At first this exercise seems very difficult, maybe even impossible, but intentionally adding a 1/10th constraint or a 10x expansion forces you to look at your … Read More
Do you control what controls you?
During our summer camping trips, Nicole and I played a lot of Gin. We were pretty evenly matched, but each of us would find ourselves on a hot or cold streak from time to time. During a particularly chilly series of hands I found myself being playfully derided by my wife, which led me to a profound and liberating realization: … Read More
You don’t know what you don’t know
Once upon a time my daughter developed a rash that kept getting worse. After a few days it started bleeding and my mind wandered to some dark places. Will it leave scars? Is it contagious? Is it some sort of flesh-eating bacteria? My overactive imagination wasn’t doing me any favors. Anxious and afraid, we took her to the doctor. After … Read More
Adaptation IS the work
Only a tiny percentage of projects are going to work exactly as you expect. Here’s the weird part: most people know this, like in their bones they know it, and yet they are still surprised and frustrated when the unexpected shows up. That’s kind of like being flabbergasted that the sun came up AGAIN today or that small children will … Read More
This is why the money doesn’t make you happy
Here’s an overwhelmingly unpopular opinion: I don’t believe that anyone really wants money. They want what money can do for them. Money is a tool, and in the same way that no one really wants a pile of hammers, piling up money for sport isn’t really gratifying. You don’t really want to be rich… You really want to demonstrate your … Read More
What else don’t you know?
I recently came across a video in which a man is expressing wholesale amazement to his wife that the trackpad on his laptop allows him to SCROLL up and down if uses two fingers. He can’t believe that, per his wife, it’s a feature that has existed on every laptop he’s ever owned. The video wraps with him, still in … Read More
Someone loves to do the thing you hate
When asked what they love most about their businesses, most of my new clients struggle to nail it down with clarity or specificity. But they all know EXACTLY what they hate about it. They are so clear about the thing(s) that vexes them, and that clarity creates a problem most of them can’t even see. Their overwhelming disdain for managing … Read More
The overwhelm is temporary
Nicole and I were in line at an ice cream shop last week and overheard one of the young workers chatting with another while they were working. “I’m nervous about my driver’s test next week,” she confided. It’s been about 150 years since I took my driver’s test and it reminded me that the things which feel overwhelming today rarely … Read More
Three things to consider before you say YES
My wife and I have vastly different work experiences. She drives 20-minutes to her office where she runs HR at our hospital. I walk across the driveway to my office where I support small business owners over the phone. She spends most of her days in executive meetings. I spend most of my days working on my businesses, creating content, … Read More
This simple habit will change your life
I recently caught a clip from an interview with Kristen Bell in which she was asked about her husband, Dax Shepard. She was recounting her first encounter with him and, after more than a decade of marriage, was absolutely hyping him up for being so much deeper and thoughtful than most people assume him to be. I immediately sent the … Read More